I can go weeks or months by totally myself and be completely fine. It's when I'm lonely, however, that I start noticing that I'm by myself, and it's usually then that I reactivate my Tinder account again and start swiping. Nobody wants to be just a time-filler in someone else's life. When you're dating because you're lonely, you're more likely to consistently go missing in action from the relationship itself.
This person isn't a priority to you, and you'll probably eventually feel guilty and dismissive of the relationship altogether. It's human to be lonely, and it's human to be flawed, but you do need to be accountable for the ways you treat people you are in an intimate relationships with. If any of these four signs sound like you, it is probably time for you to figure out how you can be alone, without being lonely: 1.
Cuddling up next to someone is definitely one of the biggest perks of a relationship, but it's definitely not fair to use someone for that level of intimacy.
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